Comments on: Just had a BAR BQ?

By: audk

audk — Sun, 01 Nov 2009 01:15:59 +0000

i am sorry to hear that ur friends have such a lax attitude to parenting, wich in turn can make u look like an ogre for trying to instill good morals and values into ur child. I have a similiar situation, but decided that if my child or another child missbehaves in my house its my rules and i will demand that that child behaves in my house or they are not welcome. i know that sounds harsh but i am dealling with 3 and 4 year olds and the naughty corner is a very effective action, i have been using it since my daughter was 18 mnths or so and its an effective deterant. good luck
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By: noone

noone — Sun, 01 Nov 2009 00:27:59 +0000

his parents were wrong for not punishing him, this boy should have been told off for this type of behaviour. Would they have let him do it if it was in their house? i dont think so!! this is absoloutley disgusting. he should have been told to go to the toilet. He is obviously not trained enough to go without a nappy!!
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By: jennycamuk

jennycamuk — Sat, 31 Oct 2009 23:51:59 +0000

blimey, they sound like shit parents, i have 4 children, ranging from 18,10,5, those 3 are girls and my son 17 months, and no way on hells earth would i let any of my kids, do there buisiness in a m8s or even anybodys garden, theres a toilet for that, and as for biting, id bite them back not so hard obviously but it soon makes em stop doing it,and a smack and sent to bed, opps i forgot not aloud to smack our kids now are we, this is why theres no many unruley kids about.

never did me any harm as a kid, its not as if your gonner bounce them of the wall is it.

children need to know whose the boss and its not them,although they would like to think so.

christ id go ballistic if that was my bbq and someone kids done that, id chuck em out of my house.
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By: Hope

Hope — Sat, 31 Oct 2009 23:39:59 +0000

Its not you she shld have punished the child. Its better you make it known to her, her childrens behaviour. Say it in a gentle way cos no woman want to be told how to raise her children. If not your children might take after that attitude.
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By: linsi

linsi — Sat, 31 Oct 2009 23:09:59 +0000

i honestly think this is gross and disrespectful, i dont honestly think your child will do it as long as they are taught not to.
Many parents are unsure of how to disipline their child and then dont bother because their are so many laws protecting the sed child eg from getting smacked.
however you are right parent should disipline their children so they dont do things like this, and if it were my child i would of taken then indoors and given them a good telling off. so that they know that what they did is wrong and would nevert repeat it again
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By: John B

John B — Sat, 31 Oct 2009 22:31:59 +0000

I certainly wouldn’t blame the child, but his parents need a good leacture!
I would not invite them round and tell them why, if they never speak to you again, what’s the loss?!!!
Just feel sorry for the child being ‘brought up’ with such parents.
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By: tinytinkster

tinytinkster — Sat, 31 Oct 2009 22:07:59 +0000

god i would have chucked him out the little brat whats the parents up to they need discipline
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By: ♥ CORRIE ♥

♥ CORRIE ♥ — Sat, 31 Oct 2009 21:22:59 +0000

Yipes! I know one thing, I wouldn’t be inviting them over again, sounds like they are raising a bit of a heathen! That’s not good for the other children to witness either and if I were a guest, and heard of them being invited, I would probably stay home! Anyhow , I bet your other guest felt the same as you did and probably would agree with you if you chose not invite them back
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By: weeksfamilyof4

weeksfamilyof4 — Sat, 31 Oct 2009 20:52:59 +0000

you did not say how old the boy was .
and they did to show him how to behave and its not a good idea to step in but speak to the parents alone and tell them that its wrong of their son to use the bathroom outside .
and the bitting was very not nice
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By: jill2006_g

jill2006_g — Sat, 31 Oct 2009 20:13:59 +0000

no at four he should know better .
I’ve 3 children and even if I was with mates the child would have been told off and the poo lifted and the child taken to the bathroom.
I’m just back from holiday and 2 boys ran about while the parents sat reading books it was a villa home holiday so we all sat outside while the kids played but these parents let the kids walk into other peoples homes and didn’t say boo .
We were ready for burning point we were telling their kids not to lift the 2 yr girl and telling their kids not to walk into our homes.
It all ended when one of the other parents drunk just went up and had a few words and the dad seemed to get the boys under control and it went peaceful again
But like yor mates you can get annoyed by what you think is punishment would you be writing a question if they went over the top and smacked the child asking was that abit harsh?
If i was telling my child off in the house im louder than if I was telling my child off in public.
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